I attended 2 garden parties this past weekend where I met some very interesting individuals and some not too exciting individuals. My Virgo nature was in full bloom and I had to really force myself to keep my sharp opinions to myself. In other words, clamp my mouth shut and not get into any arguments. I did it, but not graciously!!!! I truly apologize for my bad behavior.
What's with all these older people (oops, I'm of that certain age too) who live vicariously through their children who seem to walk on water? They travel the world, but don't get involved with other cultures. I just want to scream and say can't you go one hour without mentioning your perfect kids and their supposedly perfect careers. Just tell me what you yourself are up to these days. What kind of differences are you making in this recession-addled world?
Kudos to all the folks out there who are involved with www.kiva.org, www.prosper.com, and www.lendingclub.com. You don't have to travel to exotic locations, but you can be involved and helpful to humanity. Being a lump is nothing to be proud of.
Blunt but honest. Some people validate their lives through their prodigy, as you state, seeing the success of their children as a reflection of their parenting skills. Your valid point is that we can all ~DO~ something - and should!
I read your blog regularly, but usually do not comment. But, please continue to post and share your perspective...
Unilove aka Lisa
Kiva Fellows fan
Posted by: Unilove | October 05, 2009 at 10:14 PM